remove remove_own_mode( check - deferred_read.py better solves the issue.•••the issue was getting a MODE line on irc.com prior to 001, thus we didn't know
what our nickname was thus we didn't know that the MODE was for us. not dying
when we saw +x was easy to do with this check but I think it's more correct to
actually parse that MODE after 001 so we know we have +x.